sorry......I erased part of my post. to those that read it..my soon to be dil has a problem....in that she "doctor shops" for a certain medication of which my son has proof but has not given the info to his attorney.......so I am just saying that the story has a few more "chapters" than I have discussed. I feel if everything were out in the open it would be better for everyone concerned... meaning I wish the judge were going to have all the facts...sorry for the mixed up post. dixied