My A and I have been separated,
My A has finaly went into treatment, I have had NO contact with him, up until recently. 3 months....he has gone into a treatment centre 21 day's.
He sounds like the program has had an affect on him.....
what can I expect from him.....what are the signs to look out for....
He has asked to reconcile and I want that soooooo! I have arranged councelling for myself and the children to deal with this issue.
I guess my question is,
How much of a difference can I expect.....any treatment stories would be nice.
He seems to be Open and NOt in denial, he seems to be dealing with issues.
He is taking responsibity for his actions....and has a new net-work of recovering friends.....
I don't exspect him to come out with a personality transplant.....I admire alot of his personality trates.....but their are also some serious issues to look at....lying.....and cheating.....
he has acknowledged the lying and is definatly honest now....but what worries me is his previous attitude toward women....and guy's this is where I need your imput...
He seems to think it's his GOd given right to Cheat.....he has had multiple affairs....,How much to do with the alcohol abuse if any does this have and what kind of changes should I look for.....and what are the warning signs.
I filled out a questionaire from the treatment center regarding his recovery and I did write about this issue.....I am sure that they approached him on this OPEN and HONESTy.......
well let me have it.....
rose coloured glasses are off