Yeah it really does no me no good to hear someone that treated me like dirt to tell me, or others, that he loves me. It's not true anyway as far as I'm concerned. If you love someone you don't put substances above them, lie to them,etc....
I don't really get what they get out of saying it. I run into old friends that still tell me XABF tells them he still loves me. Whatever. It's been almost four years. he's drinking himself into his grave with his disgusting pig of a girlfriend and subjecting an innocent child to their drunken chaos and drama. How the hell can anyone like that love someone else????? they are useless, meaningless, self serving words.