Hi Cassandra,
I am also an SR member who doesn't use the 12-step method. However, like Dee and others, I do many things to stay sober. I think it's about balance and I try to exercise every day, meditate, and stay positive. I have used journalling and found it to help a lot. I also read many books to help me on my spiritual journey. And, last, but definitely not least, I am on SR every day. This place inspires me.