Originally Posted by
Lawless 
Is she projecting, quacking or what? She tried to turn everything around and make me out to be the bad guy. Is this a normal occurrence when the relationship with an A comes to an end?
Yes, yes, and yes. I've never met an active addict who isn't a master at the turning-tables manuever. The ending of the relationship is not "normal" but what you experienced is what generally occurs.