I do feel much better today. We had a much better convo on the phone and he brought up a lot of things on his own that I have been feeling that he has been speaking about to his counselor. Things like both of us need to be in positive environments and working on ourselves before working on "us". Having him initiate those topics was a huge relief because at least I know that we agree on how we should start to handle things we he gets out.
It was a positive conversation and mad my day go by a lot easier. Plus I actually got more than 4 hrs of sleep last night.