Originally Posted by
houston28 
I have faith that she will get better because I want my girls to have their mother.
On what do you base this "faith" that she will get serious about her recovery? I mean you are in here right now because she isn't staying sober.
As for the girls, yes, they love their mother. They are also learning from her what it means to be an adult woman and mother and wife. Are they learning what you would want them to learn? Lord knows I loved my alcoholic mother (still do) but I sure learned a whole lot of things from her and alcoholic dad that I wish I had never learned.