Originally Posted by
houston28 
I also think that I should get a breathalyzer.
Maybe I'm just naive but isn't a breathalyzer kind of mute? I'm trying to picture the scenario... your girls need a ride, your wife says "I'll run them up there", then you say... OK honey, just blow in this first... OK?
I could tell in a heart beat when M was drunk... just by the look in her eyes. I didn't need a breathalyzer and it wouldn't have stopped her from driving because I couldn't be there all the time. And when things were at their worst here I have told my boys (from a previous marriage) don't get in the car with M. I understand your girls are much younger but I'm just wondering if that would really produce the desired result.
You mentioned earlier something about five car accidents... was she drinking?Was she ever charged with a DUI? Also, is this her first rehab? Was it a 30 day in house with a solid follow up program? Has she attended AA meetings regularly?