Originally Posted by
houston28 
Also, no matter what evidence I find she still sticks to her story that she has been sober for a month and I know she has been going to meetings but I just in my heart know that she was drunk two nights ago and that was before I found the bottles. What if I am wrong though?
In my experience, alcoholics have to lie to feed their addiction. I think that my husband actually believed his own lies. It's a twisted thought process, and it's difficult to stay sane when someone is insisting that up is down and down is up.
Look around on this board - you'll read stories of alcoholics
swearing that they haven't been drinking - after blowing a .30 on a breathalyzer, after being caught, in the act, of swigging from a liter bottle of vodka, after passing out on the lawn "on their way home from AA".
My gut was never wrong about the alcohol.
My AH has proved himself, over time, to be an unreliable witness when it comes to his alcohol consumption.