Originally Posted by
toltecgirl 
My issue, I don't follow through, I always feel it will change. When I stick to my guns, he says "okay, I understand I will leave". Easy as that apparently. Which upsets more as I am so disposable.
It is so painful to really learn that it is so easy for an alcoholic spouse to walk away.
He is having a love affair with the bottle. Until he gets treatment -- that will never change. Question is -- is that really the relationship that you want?