Barb, I have actually been thinking about that. It may indeed be unfair to him, although he states he understands we are divorced and I may at any time move into a phase of my life that would not include him. We are both supremely, painfully aware of our situation and what brought us here.
I'm pretty sure these talks would taper off as time goes on. But I am going to really think about what you said about being fair to him. I don't want him to have any hope for two years from now when he is mobile again. I think both of us will be a million miles down the road by then. Almost certainly in different directions.
Thank you! R.