Hello freya
Thanks for sharing
I know it sucks but this burden is hers, not yours.. I mean I totally understand watching wounded parts of a loved one.. but as sad as it is she has to deal with these realities in therapy maybe... you are just giving her what you can (your love and company) and although many times we would like to heal others we can only try and heal ourselves hoping the others will take example
Just my two cents
Good vibes!!