Originally Posted by
Stubborn1 
I wanted what was best for my children and living with an addict alcoholic was NOT the best thing. In fact, it was more abuse. Mental abuse. My life got better once I had him removed. It was hard but it can be done. Financial is not a reason because there are too many options for single mothers. If you want it bad enough you can get it.
I understand what you are saying. I am trying very hard to get my finances in order, I am just not there yet. I probably am not there because in my heart this is not what I want. I just have to get over the heart part and get my head to be the leader. I just don't know how.