Thanks bv. I know he isnt ready to quit his dope. He isnt naturally angry. Never has been atleast. I had read the post on here the other and I cant remember who said it but they said that the subs arent a miracle drug. If he isnt addressing the issues that cause him to use he isnt gonna get better. So that is what his problem is. He hasnt surrendered yet. Maybe he never will.
I guess I was just expecting too much. But now I am done with that thinking and ready to start looking forward to MY life.
Thanks for your reply.