Wow! I am so glad I put this on here or else I would be kicking myself a few weeks from now. I guess I kind of just ran away with the whole process and thought I could just get it over with. Obviously, I need to really take my time and make sure that I completely leave no stone unturned. Can you only find a sponsor at meetings? I am still a little unsure of how that whole process works. I guess I was still in the mind set that I could do this on my own, but then again that's what has wasted the last 16 years of my life right? Okay, so I am going to start over from step one and find someone to guide me through. How long does the whole process usually take? Is there a certain amount of time that I should spend on each one? Thanks so much for your thoughts!