If you read the Ninth step through it says we become willing to make amends except when to do so would injure you or others. It is recommended to work the steps with a sponsor or someone who has already worked the steps. If you are only three weeks sober you may want to consider working with a sponsor. There are Eight steps that need to be worked before the ninth step, the steps are written in an order for a reason.
It is awsome that you have three weeks in recovery but be patient. One step and one day at a time!