Thanks guys....I think I will be staying away for awhile. I like what you all said about I'm not the one being punished. I also think that time is important for both of us. I agree that I probably shouldn't have tried to talk about his addiction. It just came out when I saw him behind the glass. Not that I shouldn't bring it up. Just that I should be prepared for holy heck if I'm going to. There always seems to be so much to learn each step of my recovery and his recovery. I too feel like I have done all that I can do, probably too much. So now it is up to him.
Thanks again for the words from kindred spirits. It helps more than you know.
krhea