Thank you everyone for your support and kind words. I should have been more specific. I do not drive him around anymore to get drugs, he now has his own car and his own money ( was given $10,000 when he turned 21...horrible.) so I do not have to do anything for him anymore and he is living with his grandparents.
He tells me he wants to get better and needs me to help him. And he wanted to get out of where we live because I think his friends have a huge influence on him. Yet, he refuses to go into treatment, saying that it doesnt work.
I also have a brother who is a drug addict and he has tried rehab over and over again, has been in jail, almost died from an absess from a dirty needle...yet still continues to do drugs.
I am at a lose for words. I am the kind of person who never has done drugs, I don't smoke, I don't even drink or party, yet I love someone the complete opposite of me. I want to help him and I know I have to let him go, but it hurts so much to just...stop being there.