(((NeedingHelp)))
My heart breaks for you to be having so much turmoil in your family.
Although, my situation is not exactly the same as yours - it has been similiar in many ways - lots of chaos with my daughters, their BF/husbands, addictions, and what I believe to be unhealthy decision making.
For me - I spent lots of time reading about the 3 A's (Awareness, acceptance and action); what was my business and what was theirs; and most importantly how to be ok even when my loved ones were hurting & miserable.
It has not been easily and some days it is STILL not easy.
But like you said - "God . . . Please help my family" is one of the best prayers.
I will join my prayers with yours and ask for God's best in each one of these situations.
Hugs to YOU!!
Rita