Hi NOLAGirl,
You are obviously a very intelligent and compassionate person. I was glad to read that you understood, how some people, who would like to help, are "at a loss" to do so.
When I read your post, I was stunned by the complexity of the situation:
The distance between you, the co morbidity, and severity of your mothers health problems...not to mention, (and you don't
), any role your father plays helping you, emotionally, or otherwise, to live through this nightmare...
I truly wanted to provide some useful information, that would help you in any way, but I too, was at a loss.
GiveLove to the rescue though!! Her advice is dead on.
There are very few things in life that can make me cry anymore. GiveLove your gonna be a problem for me. LOL! This the wisest and most moving and advice I have ever read. ^5 GoodLove! Keep on doing what you do, you are so lovely!
God bless NOLAGirl, I pray your mom recovers the will to save her own life, as ultimately, she is the only one who can.