Berri,
I am married to a recovering heroin addict. He started his addiction with pain pills and eventually moved on to heroin. My husband finally wanted recovery and went to rehab almost 9 months ago. Finally there is some peace in our lives. I cannot say his recovery process has been easy, but I finally found an Alanon meeting I can get help for MYSELF. My best advice for you is to find Alanon or Naranon and go to a few meetings and check it out for yourself. I am working hard at MY program and my husband is working hard on his. I promise things do get better...eventually.
Take care!!