Originally Posted by
MissFixit 
but I am angry and hurt that he is doing this, getting away with doing this and gets to continue doing the things we did together without any negative ramifications. I feel alone in this pain and it is awful.
You are not alone.
Al Anon and my therapist helped me understand two things. First, a great lesson learned in the rooms of Al Anon was "not in my time." Meaning things will not happen on the timetable I have decided upon or wish for.
My therapist has helped me understand that when people live a life of deceit and cruelty there are
always negative ramifications. Again, not in my time, but as sure as the sun rises, it is so. I choose to believe her because I've seen it happen.
Of course, I would like to see some things happen NOW, but so be it.
Keep putting one foot in front of the other and things will work out, I promise.