You two are correct. I knew I shouldn't be bothered but yesterday I just couldn't help it. I was talking to the woman who sits in front of me here at work and told her. "this is stupid" I said the serenity prayer for a while but then when I left.... It all came back and he wouldn't pick up when I called and that got me mad. Anyway he was fine when I picked him up. He wasn't bothered by it at all. It was all in my head.
I am headed to a womans AA meeting tonight, that should help.
Thanks for your response and good advice.
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