does recovering sobriety mean no sex, no plans of the future?
can anyone give more insight of a recovering alcoholic's emotional and lack of interest in physical or sexual contact during sobriety?
plus, we had plans for a future and he no longer brings it up? should i assume it no longer exist? he stopped saying i love you and wont sleep over my home stating that he doesnt want to start patterns and be responsible for my feelings. he's 20 days sober and at aa everyday. i have detached from his drinking but do i now detach from him? is it normal to be this distant??? he has a lot of issues to deal with but i have fallen last on the list of priorities.
does this happen a lot? advice? words of wisdom?