Thank you all. I have check with a lawyer and she is ready to go to bat. I am still waiting for the proverbial other show to drop in that I still have not gotten any papers. Once I get those then I will be able to see what she is asking for.
You sound like you're strong and confident and that is definitely something you should take great pride in.
It seems like it is me but in reality it is my support system that is keeping me strong. I am very lucky to have the friends and family that I do. And that includes all of you! Thank you.