I've had to rebuild trust with my eldest daughter. I haven't seen her in several years. The best way to rebuild trust is to do exactly what I've been doing for 7 years - working hard at my recovery, and staying sober a day at a time. In the end, whether she decides to trust me again really isn't the point - I'll have taken care of my side of the street - and that's the most important thing. I need to remember this on days when I'm really missing her.