Read "your" story over and over, again, in all the posts and stickies here, and see the pattern, then decide for yourself.
Because addiction is chronic and progressive, the trajectory is ALWAYS eventually downhill to devastation, unless SERIOUS recovery comes and is motivated from within the addict themself.
In my experience, any other "reality" was just wishful thinking, on my part. It was one of the most difficult things I've ever done, coming to that realization, because I wanted a different reality to play out.
Welcome! We all know your story, here... it's how we got here!
CLMI