Originally Posted by
sslusser 
I have an appointment with a lawyer on Monday. My father in law suggested that we try to get her out of the house. The fact is we feel safer where we are. I don't think she knows where the house is
As I type this she is texting and calling because she just realized that I changed my direct deposit. I am sure she is furious. I am just letting it ring. I will read her texts but I don't want to talk to her.
Uuuggghhh. My stomach hurts.
I am sure this will get ugly.
If it's any consolation to you, the moving out, splitting up, direct deposit issues were the worst part of my separation.
It sucked.
I vomited after some of our conversations.
But, having settled that, things are much better now.
Keep doing the next right thing for you, sslusser.
My extended family and friends thought I was nutso for letting my AH stay in the house, but getting out - FAST - was important for me. He threw a huge fit about moving out and wasn't taking any steps to find a place of his own. I left with my son, and I do not regret it at all.
Trust your gut. You know what you need.
Take care.
-TC