I drank for alot of years over resentment...it didn't help ... in fact it simply fueled the anger and damaged my self esteme. Today I find that I have to not drink if my a$$ falls off, and learn how to process my emotions and then take actions that are helpful to myself and others.
DC...When I am feeling shaky about the sobriety thing I do try to not put myself within acess of alchohol. Now you may feel completely different tomarrow about all this....so I just wait and make the best possbile decision I can for my sobriety from moment to moment.
I really don't believe this thread or anyother is "responsible" for wether or not someone gets drunk. What will get one person drunk will get another person sober....for me I simply have to look for the places in my life where I can "be" and not sweat the fact that i don't always feel comfortable everywhere all the time.
So thats sorta it for me...Didn't wanna leave you out there on a string DC!
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