Help- I am so confused
I am so confused. My AS is supposed to be in recovery. He attends an intensive outpatient program 3 times a week and has individual counseling once a week. I know when he is using and I'm quite sure he is still using. Of course when I confront him he denies it and gets very defensive. He says that I am the only one "bringing him down" and that I am a trigger making him want to use because I talk about it all the time. Why do you think he would go to these meetings and still continue to use on a regular basis?? Should I continue to question him or just let him do whatever and hope he gets something useful out of the meetings? Sometimes I want to tell him to stop wasting everyones time and stop helping him but then I'm hoping that just showing up at the meetings will somehow help him. I never know if I'm helping him or enabling him.