These are the things I'm working on...
Anything beyond the tip of my nose is none of my business (this one requires constant repetition since I've been a major control freak for 40 years).
Fearful is not faithful.
I trust you, God, COMPLETELY! I trust you, I trust you, I trust you (repeated countless times throughout any given day)
It is not God's way to respond/react with anger. Strive to make my own behavior more pleasing to God.
My boundaries are about ME, and it is perfectly reasonable for ME to keep MY boundaries solid to protect/preserve MY peace, MY serenity, MY sanity. It doesn't really matter if my AH likes it or not. Its about ME.
One day at a time.
Tomorrow is a new day.
These are the main things I'm working on right now.