((((Dixied))))
You have come such a long way! Of course this is hard for you, because you're a good mom and you love him. I can see why you have mixed feelings, but you are focusing on the positives.
It sounds like a good place to me, with a lot of support. We RA's NEED structure and rules. He's upbeat, has a job interview and that is just awesome!
You're supporting his recovery, haven't been enabling him, and are dealing with YOUR feelings about all this.
Good job, mom!
Hugs and prayers!
Amy