Chuck, don't be sad now. You gave some really great advice, so just by doing that, you might have just encouraged me to do the right thing. I know what I need to do. The military has some really great resources. I know I can talk to someone anonymously & they will know how to handle the situation. It seems like this really struck a chord with you. Again I didn't mean to turn this into a big deal. I was just getting angry watching someone who whines to me all the time about not having money, but then also spills her guts & tells me every detail of her life & how she wastes her money on drugs. I don't know how it could not affect me in some way. I think anyone would be a little upset about it, even if they had made some stupid mistakes in the past.
Butterfly, I really like that quote. Thank you again for your words of advice. Good luck to both of you in your recovery.