so i got this friend...
so I've been in the program for almost a year. I recently went back out and was having a hard time regaining my footing. I relapsed with someone in the program and while I came clean to the group about my sobriety, she chose not to. I'm back at 37 days today. I respect whatever she feels she gotta do-it's her program, but her 1-year "anniversary" is coming up and I'm not comfortable being a part of that. We share homegroups and usually attend most of the same meetings. I love her dearly, and maybe it's my self-centeredness that keeps me just a little bit angry that I've had to start over while she continues on like nothing happened. i was wondering what i could say to her as the reason I'm not celebrating with her, without hurting her feelings or losing her friendship?