okay, Bonnie...don't call him
It's just getting you upset, and he probably doesn't even have a clue.
I know you're concerned and worried, (and mad) but I'm realizing it's not just A's who do this. After trying to get hold of my boss for THREE days, and finally given up, 2 days later he asks "well, why didn't you call me?"
Today I tried calling him again but he is off for 2 days.
I know it's different when it's your son and he an A, but one of my friends does the same thing.
Let it go, sweetie, and go to dinner without him if you don't hear from him...you deserve it!
Hugs and prayers!
Amy