Originally Posted by
blessed4x 
That one sentence is what I have been trying to put in words for months now. My AH is currently not drinking during the week. He is thoughtful and caring and gentle......but I still can't risk "opening my heart", because I know the weekend is coming, or if not this weekend then the next. The trust is gone.
I'm working on me, but still it's the hardest thing I've ever done. Thanks you for sharing. I feel less alone because you did.
ounds like he altered the pattern to "binge" rather than evert day. Does he not get wiped out when he binges?
Sooner or later the gaps between binges will shorten.