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Old 10-22-2008, 12:18 PM
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denny57
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I told her my boundry that will keep us together is for her to tell me sooner that she had that first drink, not lie about it even though we all know what's happening, and get her help BEFORE we are at the detox stage. She can't commit to it.
It was very painful to realize someone did not want to make a choice that would keep us together. It was doubly painful to accept it.

Today, I am grateful the universe did for me what I would not do for myself.

((( )))
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