I dont know how ive grieved, I dont know how Ive made it this long or this far. I do know im not through grieving, its like my X died, or the part I loved died, i mean how do you get through someone dying, you dont really , it just gets easier with time and you learn to just accept everything. I just take one day at a time. Some days im ok and some days i want to snap. I think everyone deals with things their own way and there no one way that everybody grieves.