My AH has not spoken to either of our children since September 8th although he did call ME several times last night. I don't quite know why but he's gone months without contact with the children during other separations. He says it's because he doesn't want to deal with my shite. You know, like asking him to be sober before and during visits and not to take them around his new piece of arse.
There is not another woman now (that I know of) and my kids are older and have their own cell phones. He still doesn't call them or see them.
My S8 doesn't know if he wants to see his Daddy, and D12 doesn't want anything to do with him at this time.
I wish I knew...2 separations ago my AH was not drinking and he still didn't make contact.
:sorry