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Old 10-17-2008, 12:20 PM
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hello-kitty
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well I think it's great that he's got 60 days or 57 or whatever. That's a big deal for a crack addict. However, truth be told, it's just a drop in a bucket when you think about staying clean for a lifetime. That's why we focus on staying clean one day at a time. In reality it's his clean time, and he can count it however he wants. All the while remembering that all it takes is one stupid move to screw it all up.

So curious what's working for him this time that he hasn't tried before? What's he doing differently this time to accumulate all this time?

What about you? What are YOU doing differently? Tell us about your program. I'm sure you could help alot of people here if you shared what you are doing to take care of yourself while your husband faces his addiction. Do you have boundaries in place? Are you sticking with them? Are you getting counseling?
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