I used to be the same way, and still am, at times. I think, like Baxter, it just brings up feelings of being lied to.
I finally had to learn to ask myself "does it really matter if he knows you're right? Is it going to change anything"...the answer was always "no". I've had to bite my tongue, more than a few times, but finally accepted that I know I'm right and that just has to be good enough.
Hugs and prayers!
Amy