Why does it bother me?
So, my RAH sends me a text today and tells me he has 60 days sober today. I responded with "I thought you said it would be on Monday" and he said, no it's today. So, I get my calendar out and count the days, and 60 days is actually on Monday. So this really bothers me...why?? Why do I care??? So, instead of arguing, I just said, "Congratulations, I'm so happy for you". But this really bothers me, and it bothers me that it bothers me. It's like I'm compelled to correct him. But I'm refraining. What matters is that he thinks it's 60 days and it's working for him, and I don't want to steal his joy, right?? Obviously, I still need to work on myself and work my program harder! Thanks for letting me put it on paper....cyber paper I guess.