I should be getting a call from the counselor today. She said she'd call by the end of the week for an update. I of course, have settled down a bit since the phone call. I didn't hear from him all week (good thing, as doing so would mean he was breaking rules). I hope for a more pleasant phone call this time, and I will feel out the mood of the phone call, as to whether I bring up the other one. At the very least, I'd like to tell her that I was very upset at the call, and the tone, and not for nothing, my nerves are raw the past few weeks, and I'm just muddling through a sticky situation best I know how.
I'll let you know if anything is said, and thanks for all the concern. It's nice to come to a place where "our" feelings count, instead of the addicts.
Eileen