((((((Chris))))))))))))
No easy position for you to be in.
At times like these, you know you must do what is right for these two babies.
Would an intervention this week with the offer of an inpatient treatment facility immediately be a possibility for your son? My son was unable to figure it our for himself, but when I set up an inpatient for him, he went and he's been in recovery 8 mos. now.