I want to share the best piece of advice I've found here. It's from CarolD. She says maintaining sobriety means that you have to want to stop drinking more than anything, and more than you want(ed) to drink.
Thank you Carol D! I thini that is why I'm sober this long. Cause I always really wanted to drink, even when I knew it was bad for me. But now that I want to stay sober more than anything it's not hard to resist temptation and triggers.