Welcome Essexboy and Jeanette!
Essex, keep on reading on here. You may be a heavy drinker and not an alcoholic, but really think about it long and hard. I know for me my drinking was a problem when it started to affect others in my family. (I was never an angry drunk either, just silly)
Jeanette,
Welcome to the board. Keep posting! Maybe start a new thread and tell us a little about yourself! keep coming back!
blessings! Sheila