Originally Posted by
TooMuch4TooLong 
I hope no one takes this the wrong way but do you have a guy friend that might be interested in being say a friend with benefits? I mean, as long as you both have your boundaries set in advance and stick to them it might be an alternative.
Not that this doesn't sound appealing, but I've made an agreement (for the time being) with AH.
If I decide to change my mind about that arrangement, I think it would be best to inform him of my decision before taking "action". It's what I would want him to do for me.
I'm trying to be really honest with myself about what these feelings represent - it's troubling to think that, even with all the recovery work that I'm doing, I still need someone else to satisfy me.
I think I was hoping that
I would be enough to satisfy myself.
What would I say about AH if he wanted to sleep with someone else
right after we split?
I'd say he had issues.
Guess maybe I have some, too.