codependency has worn me out, whether or not an A is involved. If I'm codependent, I tend to determine MY self worth by the other person's behavior. If they're upset, it must have been something I did. I was always trying to run around, smooth things over and keep everyone ELSE happy....and I lost my own happiness along the way. I didn't see this, though, until I started stepping back and let people handle their own issues.
Hugs and prayers!
Amy