Anger is good. if you don't let it out, it will eat you alive.
Reading your post made me laugh, even though I know you were really angry at the time. Waxing the butt crack woudl be pretty painful, wouldn't it?
I've come home to find my ABF in bed sleeping the day away when he should be out finding a job, or after he snuck out on a binge for days and didn't come back. I wanted to hit him over the head with a frying pan....atleast your visualizations are less harmful....
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