Mr. B and Coyote you both ROCK. Taking care of the kids is no easy feat and it is great to see real men who are willing to do it.
I am learning how to not live in fear of that call, I know it will happen and it will break my heart when it does. I also know the three C's thanks to this board. Can't Control it, can't Cure it and I darn sure didn't Cause it. It may be ten years from now or it may be next week. I don't know and even if I did I could not change it. That is not my decision.
So we take off the SuperCodie cape and we trade it in for what we really are. Me, I am a woman without super powers but I am a good mom and you are a man and a great dad.
Oh by the way, to be a good parent, you do have super powers..the power locate the other shoe with xray eyes, know when homework is not done, and the ability to know when a child is ready for a bath with a single sniff